An Unconventional Love Story
By: Forgottonia Times™ Report
In a world that often seems divided by age, experience, and outlook, the story of Aaliyah Naff and Ken Cole is a testament to the enduring power of connection. Their unconventional bond, forged through the program A Book by Me, emphasizes the importance of storytelling and sharing history.
Aaliyah, a young homeschool artist from Ipava, was paired with Ken, a Korean War National Guard veteran from Macomb, to illustrate his life story for a children’s book. The project was organized by A Book by Me, a nonprofit founded by Deb Bowen that connects young creators with local heroes—veterans, Holocaust survivors, and civil rights activists—ensuring their stories live on for generations.
“When all was said and done, their bond was a beautiful tapestry of love—one that transcended time,” Bowen recalled. At their first meeting, Aaliyah’s respect for Ken was evident. She eagerly asked questions, seeking guidance to bring his story to life through her art. Ken, in turn, found joy in sharing his memories and witnessing Aaliyah’s dedication to preserving his legacy.
Dubbed “the forgotten war,” the Korean War and its veterans rarely receive the same attention as other conflicts. Aaliyah’s illustrations brought Ken’s life vividly to the page, including a whimsical drawing affectionately nicknamed “Pancake Kenny” where children nationwide are encouraged to color in the photo to accompany with letters to send to Ken, reminding him he’s not forgotten. The initiative also encourages children to write letters to veterans they know, ensuring their service is recognized and appreciated.
Reflecting on her experience, Aaliyah shared that “it’s important for people to talk to veterans and local heroes so their stories are remembered and to honor them for their services to our country and community. To let them know that they are not forgotten and are appreciated.”
The story of Aaliyah and Ken is just one of over 100 books created through A Book by Me. Founded in 2003, the program began when Bowen, inspired by meeting Holocaust survivors, decided to preserve their stories. She envisioned a project where students would partner with individuals who lived through pivotal moments in history, bringing their experiences to life for younger audiences in both the written word and colorful illustrations. This program is a love story in itself. It’s about the love of history, storytelling, and intergenerational connection. Kids learn empathy, resilience, and courage, while the heroes realize their stories will inspire future generations.
The books often feature firsthand accounts of extraordinary events, such as a Pearl Harbor medic’s recollections or a Holocaust survivor’s harrowing journey. These stories also serve as powerful tools for teaching history in classrooms. Bowen notes that the personal connections forged during these collaborations leave lasting impressions on both the students and their subjects.
The program’s impact frequently extends beyond its participants. Bowen has seen students develop a deeper understanding of sacrifice and bravery. Teachers have also noted how these projects bring history to life in ways traditional lessons cannot. For veterans like Ken, it offers a chance to share their legacy and remind others of the human cost of war. “Veterans took time out of their lives to serve; they left their family, their job, and their warm bed to learn a new job,” Ken remarked, a sacrifice worth honoring.
Love doesn’t always look the way we expect. It’s more than family, romance, or lifelong friendship—it’s also found in the quiet acts of kindness between strangers who choose to see and honor each other. Aaliyah and Ken’s bond is proof of that. She didn’t have to depict his story, and he didn’t have to share it. But she listened, he opened up, and together, they built something that will outlast them both. Love for our neighbors, love for the past, love for the stories that make us who we are. The story of Aaliyah and Ken is a heartwarming reminder of the importance of slowing down, listening, and connecting.
For more information about A Book by Me and its projects, visit www.understandingworks.org/abookbyme or email abookbyme@gmail.com.